Although abstaining from toxic food is essential for your health, what becomes more paramount for your overall happy life is getting emancipation from the toxic attitudes of the ill-natured people all around you.
It is easy to detect poison in food, but it is hard to find toxicity in people’s attitudes and remove it. Even if you come to know about it, it happens to be too late. Before we get into the main topic, which is how to get rid of toxic people, it is essential to know who these people actually are.
What part do these Toxic people play in your life?
Toxic people do not let you enjoy prosperity, happiness, and the pleasures of life. They keep you far away from the avenues of progress with their cunning tricks and tactics. They always keep you encircled with the company of your fair-weather friends who influence you in a negative manner and hamper your intellectual grooming. They make you nostalgic and cynical. They create regrets in your mind and don’t allow you to be futuristic. They deprive you of hope and portray a bleak picture of life.
Keep on making complaints about one thing or the other is the salient feature of toxic mentality. They make you dissatisfied with what you have and greedy for what you lack. They create a sense of guilt in yourself and make you stick to it without any desire to do away with it.
Let us try to resolve the dilemma of being affected by the toxic people and take a new leaf of life, hope, happiness, progress, and prosperity by keeping the toxic people at arm’s length.
Recognize the Toxic People around you
You cannot combat and defeat your enemy until and unless you know about him. What he is, and who he is, and how he undermines you. Toxic people are always self-centered and remain busy having their own axe to grind at the cost of your innocence and sincerity. You cannot cope with them in any way.
The moment you realize that a person is becoming unbearable for you, quit him then and there, instead of bringing him round to your point of view and lingering on your companionship with them, with the hope of any betterment.
Mending walls
Once you have got an escape from a toxic person, it should be once and for all. Don let him come back to ruin your life. Stop communicating with him through any of the mediums- texting, social media, e-mails. Block all the means of communications that can reconnect you with him again.
Never Try to Save Such Rogues
The toxic people are stubborn, obstinate, and cunning. They are incorrigible. They can deceive you with their oily tongue and sycophancy. Don’t take pity on them. It is none of your business to accommodate them. Beware of them. They may deceive you more bitterly if you allow them to reappear in your life.
Keep a Vigilant Eye on Them
You need always to be vigilant lest you should be influenced by toxic people. Making a difference between the toxic and non-toxic is necessary. An apparently rude person may not always be toxic. If his bad behavior is recurrent, they are toxic; if they show it once in a blue moon and become apologetic, they are not toxic.
Avoid Spending Time with the Toxic People
If you are apprehensive of meeting someone, it is an indicator that something is wrong at the bottom, and your conscience pricks you about his being wrong.
The toxic people always think of themselves. They seldom think of others. This is selfishness.
A toxic person always attributes his failures to others. He has nothing to do with what you need or what you want. This habit makes him intolerable for you. It is always better to avoid such a company.
A Toxic person Does not Deserve Your Kindness
A toxic person may exploit your acts of kindness. He may take undue advantage of your sincerity. Your being nice with such a person may be harmful to you. Don’t deceive, don’t be deceived, is the best behavior
A toxic person does not feel any hesitation in making you bankrupt in all respects. He will take delight in plundering you and depriving you of all that you are blessed with. However, you must not be unkind to them but, let not your kindness become your Achilles heel, causing your downfall.
Say Goodbye to Them for Good
Once you have got rid of the toxic people, make sure that it is forever. Close your doors for them forever. Don’t let them get back to you to disturb the peace of your life. They would not hesitate to knock at your door with one or the other lame excuse. You must keep in mind “once burned twice shy.”
If you cannot avoid a Toxic person due to your family relations, you should have only telephonic contact with him but not so frequently, just a few and far between.
Be Bold and Courageous
Realize that you are going to decide something exceptional. It is not child’s play that you break off your relationship with toxic people so easily. It involves so many factors and compulsions. You will have to be brave enough to face the consequences. You will have to be strategic in this regard.
Although your once for all decision of breaking off with the toxic people is extremely difficult, yet it will save you forever. Otherwise, the poisonous attitude of the toxic people will ruin you. So save yourself from being ruined.
Conclusion
Being affected by a Toxic relation is a curse. What is a blessing is to know what toxicity is and who toxic people are. Try to know the tricks, tactics, maneuvering, and manipulations of the malignant-natured people and escape them.
You will have to be conscious of the toxic people all around you. It is not easy to get rid of them. However, once you are free, don’t be trapped by them again. Don’t trust them. They will come back in your life to annihilate you. You are not born to be spoiled. Save your life from the threats impending on your life by toxic people.
